Tweak new user menu design (#33444)

* Tweak new user menu design

* Update screenshots

* More screenshots

* Add story with no avatar

* add story to test

* Expand the menu so it actually shows what it's supposed to show

* Use the open parameter

which is the param to open the menu

* snapshot

* Add test for normal open menu version

* Move menu to the right of the avatar

and make it appear on top of the display name

* Fix user menu layout

* screenshots

* snapshot

* screenshots

* more screenshots

* Shift toasts to the left slightly

So they completely cover the display name of the user menu when
it's expanded. Also down slightly so they're level with the user menu.

* Tweak toast border radius & position

to match & sit on top of the user menu

* Close toasts in cider tests

* Only close the toast if it's actually there

* Fix some toasts to be dismissed & update screenshots

more to come though

* Make closeKeyStorageToast actually optional

* Fix some more toasts & races

* Screenshots again again (again)

* More screenshots

* Convert to rejectToast

* Fix toast rejectors to not wait and update screenshots

* Apparently 1ms is not long enough

apps/web/playwright/e2e/settings/appearance-user-settings-tab/appearance-user-settings-tab.spec.ts

@@ -69,6 +69,7 @@ test.describe("Appearance user settings tab", () => {
         { tag: "@screenshot" },
         async ({ page, app, user, util }) => {
             await rejectToast(page, "Verify this device");
+            await rejectToast(page, "Notifications");
 
             const roomId = await util.createAndDisplayRoom();