Fix room list often showing the wrong icons for calls (#32881)

* Give rooms with calls a proper accessible description

Besides improving accessibility, this makes it possible to check for the presence of a call indicator in the room list in Playwright tests.

* Make room list react to calls in a room, even when not connected to them

To use the results of CallStore.getRoom reactively, you need to listen for Call events, not ConnectedCalls events.

* Don't assume that every call starts off as a video call

If a Call object is created by way of someone starting a voice call, then of course the call's initial type needs to be 'voice'.

* Make room list items react to changes in call type

The type of a call may change over time; therefore room list items explicitly need to react to the changes.

* Update a call's type before notifying listeners of the change

If we notify listeners of a change in a call's type before actually making that change, the listeners will be working with glitched state. This would cause the room list to show the wrong call type in certain situations.

* Ignore the Vitest attachments directory

.gitignore

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 /packages/shared-components/node_modules
 /packages/shared-components/dist
 /packages/shared-components/src/i18nKeys.d.ts
+/packages/shared-components/.vitest-attachments
 
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